The Provider Program
How To Be The Provider She Wants
21 days, one-on-one with Cole. Daily lessons, a printed Playbook and four live calls.
No pressure. Talk first, pay after.
Do Any of These Sound Familiar?
You work hard and make good money, but nothing you do ever seems to be enough for her.
You get defensive the moment she brings something up, and you’d rather win the argument or shut down than lose another night to it.
You’re scared you can’t actually provide for your family, and part of you doesn’t believe a man like you can.
You’re afraid that being a husband and dad means giving up your freedom, your hobbies, and who you are.
Nobody ever showed you how to be a husband, so you don’t know where to start.
You know what you should be doing. You’re just not doing it, and she’s already asked you to step up.
If you nodded at even one of these, you’re not broken. You were never shown how. That’s what the next 21 days fix.
The Four Parts
Most men picture providing as one enormous weight. Money, protection, leadership, all of it, all at once, for the rest of your life. Nobody can lift that.
Take it apart and it's four pieces. Each one is small enough to work on this week. And you're already strong in at least one of them. Most men are.
Who Should Take the Program
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You want to be the provider, but you don't know how that works.
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You think being a provider is too hard in this day and age.
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You've never seen anyone actually provide.
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Someone you love has asked you to step up.
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A baby, a newborn or an engagement is close.
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You want real movement in weeks, and a year of sessions isn't what you're after.
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You'll give it 15 to 20 minutes a day.
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You want someone to tell you you're already fine.
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You're looking for therapy to work through the past.
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You'd rather join a group than do the work one-on-one.
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$497 doesn't feel worth a lifelong investment right now.
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You won't open the book.
One price. Everything included.
$497
About what a month of weekly therapy costs, and built to be finished in three weeks.
No pressure. We'll see if it fits your life before you pay anything.
- DAILY21 short daily lessons.
One a day, 15 minutes or less.
- BOOKThe Provider's Playbook.
A physical book shipped to your door. The exercises live here, so you work on paper rather than on a screen.
- CALLSFour one-on-one calls with Cole.
About four hours in total: one before you start, then one at the end of each week.
- GUIDEGuide to Hard Conversations.
- AFTER30, 60 and 90-day check-ins after the program.
The job isn't finished after 21 days. What we build, you have to sustain. I won't just disappear when my check clears. My success hinges on yours, so I hope you don't get sick of me.
- STARTDay 1 starts on your intake call.
No days burn while the book is in the mail.
The guarantee.
I want you to succeed. Do every lesson and every Playbook page for 21 days. If you don't feel more ready to be the provider she needs, I'll refund all $497.
Questions.
How much time does this take each day?
About 15 to 20 minutes: a short lesson and a page in the Playbook. The calls are scheduled around your week.
What happens on the call?
We talk about where you are, what's going on at home and what's coming up. If it's a fit, you start that day. If it isn't, I'll tell you, and you'll leave with something useful anyway.
Do I need to be married?
No. Married, engaged or dating all work. What matters is that there's someone you want to provide for.
Does she need to be involved?
No. This is your work. Most men find the tension at home starts to ease before they say a word.
What if I fall behind?
A new lesson unlocks each day, and lessons stay open once they unlock. Pick up where you left off. The calls keep you on track.
What if it doesn't work for me?
Do every lesson and every Playbook page for 21 days. If you don't feel more ready to be the provider she needs, I'll refund all $497. Probably not the smartest business decision, but I'm not in it for the money. I'm in it for your transformation.